How and why people change during a lifetime can be illuminating. Evolving can be exciting, challenging, chaotic, and, simply, scary. What’s important is that it happens.
The Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewis decided, after a career selling Kodak copiers, to attend Princeton Seminary and become a minister. As the first Black senior clergy at Manhattan’s Middle Church (established in 1628), she has led a multicultural, progressive congregation through its individual trials and an especially public fire. One of her seven books, Fierce Love, espouses living life, exactly as she says—“fiercely.”
Dr. Lewis divides her book into three sections—“You,” “You and your Posse,” and “You and the World.” She enlarges each of those with three chapters, each titled with a facet of her philosophy:
1. “Love Yourself Unconditionally—It all starts here.”
2. “Speak Truthfully. It will set you free.”
3. “Travel Lightly. Downsize the burdens you carry.”
4. “Show Kindness and Affection Wildly. Make fierce love real.”
5. “Confront Boldly. Transform your circumstances with Moral Courage.”
6. “Think Inclusively. They’re your people, too!”
7. “Live Justly. Choose fairness and equality every day.”
8. “Find Joy Purposefully. It is the water of life.”
9. “Believe Assiduously. Have faith in love.”
In a recent interview with Dr. Lewis, the Rev. Dr. Bill Kerley, from the United Methodist Church in Houston, asked her how she could have hope in these turbulent contemporary times. She has seen many different sides of humanity, even within her own family’s negative response to Caucasians, including her two white husbands. Yet, she still believes that we all need each other, and thoughtful awareness will one day infuse all of us.
She concludes her book with these words: “I want to convert you, to convince you, to proselytize you. I want you to believe with me in our shared capacity to make a better life and a better world, together. I hope you’ll believe assiduously in love, in the fiercest love of all.”
If I lived near her church, I would consider joining her congregation. After all, such a positive message, spiritual rather than “religious,” would be both appealing and refreshing. Generally, all we need is joy and love to survive—and thrive. . . . Search for her on Google to see how much she has accomplished for the communities with which she has been connected.

